The Motivators

Day 38

Yesterday Tito Tony asked me "oel list 3 things who do you want to be after this challenge". I want to be a motivator Tito, Through my experience in life i want to touch other people life also..Then Tito Tony told me in what way oel??...you wanna be a motivational speaker??or a writer??....Tito i'm a type of person don't like to write or stand infront of many people....Tito i'm type of person who like stay behind the scene, and then tito tony told me "oel start walking around and find some people and start sharing your story on how you change your life...from a bum to a success Life Motivator"...and today i start my mission i already begin touching a life to my friends :)

Treasure Hunting

Day 29

My blog for today is a continuation to my previous blog, is about discovering my self, my talents, skills, and my core gifts. I mentioned to my previous blog what is my talents or core gifts, friends I was so amazed because all my questioned  have been answered in a TV show :)...You wanna know what is that TV show??..then you have to force me :)...hehhehe just kidding...Friends are you familiar to Bo. Sanchez??Kerygma TV??The FEAST??..Yes friends it was Bro. Bo answered my questions, Bro. Bo mentioned in the FEAST "discovering your talents or your core gifts is like a treasure hunting...you need to dig and if could not find the treasure on that area you need to dig again in another area".. Starting today I promise that i will not stop digging until i will find my talents and my core gifts and I promise once i found my core gift i will share it to others :)..

LESSON LEARNED:

EVERY ACCOMPLISHMENT START WITH THE DECISION TO TRY.

The Unsuccessful SUCESS

Day 26

Lately I always keep on asking to my self  "WHO IS JOEL EARL MELGO?"...Honestly i think i really dont know who am i...i dont even know what are my talents,skills,or a gifts, all i know is JOEL EARL MELGO is a empty can...My Sensei (Tito Tony) ask me some question a question like this "oel if you have a talent or gift unsa man ang imu ma share sa akoa?"...i answered tito tony right after he asked me.."tito mao na ako problem karon...i really dont know who am i...i really dont know kung unsa ako talent or a gift or a dream na katong bata pako"...then tito tony share a inspiring story, the story is about a child who dreamed to become a fireman...(nakalimot ko s title)....the point of the story is "oel tan.aw s mirror try to recall from the past...try to recall a child who dreamed big who dream to become a fireman in the story...and after that oel you can find your self"....after that sharing, i really told my self "starting today i will commit to my self to find that child who dreamed big and who dreamed to become a successful"....and right this moment i making my 1st move to know my self :) (i'm talking to my one of my closest friend)... :)

LESSON LEARNED:
IF YOU WANT TO BECOME A SUCCESSFUL IN YOUR DREAMS, BE SUCCESS TO YOUR SELF FIRST

ThisCOURAGE

Day 18

"I FEEL GREAT TODAY" You wanna know why??...then asked me why...heheheh because i'm so productive today. Sensei (tito tony) tough us some guerilla tactics for our marketing for our incoming "money magnet seminar". after tito tony tough us the tactics he add some story to motivated us to work our task he told us "oel and twinkle imagined naai operahanan sa inyu family or something important sa imu life and you need to raised 125 thousand pesos hantod november 20 if dili ka maka raised og funds mamatay ang imu friend,family members,love ones....buhaton ba nmu tanan para maka raise ka og funds??...find your BIG emotional WHY!!!...in order to achieved your success find your emotional why if nganu imu gmake na task"...after that i feel scared and so many enter on my mind, so many "what if's" questions...i asked twinkle "sik kaya ni nato??" i never watched her eyes because i don't want her to see or feel me that i'm afraid...and then twinkle answered my question "kaya ni babz" but the sound of her voice i can feel it that she's afraid too...at the moment i find a way para ma relax ko and para mawala ako fears...tsedeng!!!...after that i remember my vow to my self  "kaylangan dili ko mahadlok sa mga challenge para more ma inspired sila twinkle og benson...kailangan dili ko magpakita og weakness nila s challenge.....ako ang kuya nila ako dapat mu carry if nag lisod sila, ako dapat mu protect nila if in danger sila, ako dapat mu care nila if ma down sila.....failure nila failure pd naku...SUCCESS nila SUCCESS pud naq :D" after that i start to work my task, tito tony told us to asked our friend to have phone # of their friends so that we can promote money magnet seminar through  txt blast...but what i did is since most of my friends are more active on computer(facebook) so i ask a favor to them to have 10+ phone # of their friends. honestly the task is not easy "namoypoy akong right arm" but no matter what i feel i never stopped asking favors to my friends. my goal for that time is to have 100 phone # and when i check it how many phone # i have now :)....i was so amazed i have 103 phone # right now :)....but 103 is not enough but its only the beginning i need 10thousand phone #...i'm not afraid anymore because i know "I have infinite potential"


LESSON LEARNED:

No dreams comes true until you wake up and go to work ON YOUR DREAMS

GOOD, BETTER, and the BEST

Day 15

Hello everyone :) for 10 days I'm back with my blog :) . I'm little bit busy this previous week :'( and i don't have laptop to make my blog ....."reasons"....but thanks to Hilado's family they let me borrowed their laptop :)....

I have a GOOD days, a BETTER days, a BEST day :) for past 9 days...

I will start in my GOOD Days :D

Last Friday October 21 I'm in the "panic mode"because I organized a batch reunion for our section in high school. Every hour i received a text messages of my classmates asking "earl unsa naman ni??...dayun pa ta ani og reunion??....wala mani claru ang mga organizers oi...dili man mu update!!!"....Honestly it really hurt my feelings :'( but the show must go on...so what i did i called some of my classmates talked to them and tell them about my plans....October 22 "reunion day" I'm still in the "panic mode" because some of my classmates don't want to go with us anymore "walay claru ang mga organizer!!!mahal ang amot!!!" so what i did :) "DO NOTHING" and talked to my self  "mu apil mu or dili kevz na ninyu....mag enjoy mi og amua"....finally our reunion time :D....it so amazing because i estimated 20 attendees but GOD is so amazing He gave me 23 attendees wooooohhh...."sobra pa kaau amu food,drinks,and our money"...and the best thing is "sobra pd mi kaau nag enjoy sa among reunion" wooooohhh even though nag absent ako sa 90 day challenge i still  learning in our reunion..."THE SHOW MUST GO ON"

My BETTER DAYS :)

Last Wednesday October 26 JanMck, Benson and Me started our Networking Company Hopping :) for the Money Magnet Seminar By John Calub. Well everything is go with the flow no problem about the promotion and everything is on the plan and the best part is every networking company we visited they smiled back to us every time they hear the name John Calub and some of them are student of John Calub so its easy to us to invite them to the seminar, I observed Jan how he deliver his messaged to every networking company, and then I when we finished our task on that day I talk to my self in the mirror "ahhh in.atoon ra dei to pag storya...sayuna ra dei oi....pabagai ra dei n og nawng"...October 27 Thursday evening, we continue what we did on the other day Networking Company Hopping :) but that day was so PERFECT, our 1st destination is A** *L***L company I'm so very excited to invite them in Money Magnet seminar, and we arrived in their office I started to talk to them and invited them in the Money Magnet seminar but "bastosay  man ang show oi...pasapasa man s lain-lain na tao" but i never stop talking i continue what i did and then the security guard come and say "sir dili bya na pwede inyu gibuhat" i asked the security guard "unsaon man namu para ma pwede ni amu gibuhat?...kinsa man ako storyaan?" and the security guard told us "kailangan pa ninyu mag secure og appointment letter para s amu head dri s office"..(wow ka hasle)...so what i did is "guard para madali ni tanan amu raman n ibilin ang letter then inyu mga leaders nay mu invite s ila members....dili man kami mu invite s inyu mga members" and after that "nag dali-dali jd mi og hawa s ila building (grabi naglagot ko pag ayu....pro dili ko ganahan magpakita s ako emotion because dili ko ganahan ma affected ako team s ako emotion) as we walk to another networking company, one of my colleague told me "babs grabi ato oi dili man to naku makaya kung in.atoon ko" honestly that time i'm still on my boiling point but again "dili ko ganahan ma affected sila sa ako emotion"...what i did i told my colleague forget what happen earlier, let just thank GOD that  "early to nato na encounter" so at that point my mind and my emotion start to relax :) and then i told them that count the Blessings and forget the negative vibes :) its all part of our challenge how to manage rejections :D..


My BEST Day:)
It was a short conversation with my Sensei (tito Tony), he told me "oel hinay naka og stop s imu mga binuang ky wla jud mutuo nimu ana kung sigi lang ka og binuang"...huhuhuhuhuh :'( its ouch to my part (sakita oi ako best part sa life ako cya eminimize...huhuhuhuh), I know Sensei is right i need to change my habits. Sensei told me I need to change in order to achieved my SUCCESS and he explained it to me why i need to change my attitude,habits,or my life "how can you inspired other people kung wala nag seryuso s imu gipang himu karn". after that conversation "nag tanga ko s starbucks and nag think sa gisulti ni tito tony s akoa"...I really ask my self (how serious i am in the challenge?), honestly "wala pako ni give sa ako best sa mga challenge its because i'm preparing s mga big challenge" but what i've learned is "i need to give my very best in every challenge so that 1 day if i have my own apprentice maka share ko niya kung unsa ko ka seryuso s tanan naku gihimu and if dli ko mu give s ako very best in every challenge dili naku ma motivate akong apprentice"



LESSON LEARNED:

“Life is not about how fast you run, or how high you climb, but how well you bounce.”

TEMPTATION

Day 5

I’m proud to MY SELF:D because for the 1st time in my life i said “DILI KO MU INOM”. You wanna know why i’m so proud to my self even though it is just a simple common saying....it goes like this...if you read my 1st blog in our 90 day challenge I mentioned there that I spend most of my time in “TAGAY”. So it’s really hard for me to resist especially to my barkadas. But today I create a new IMAGE a new DECISION a new JOEL , I refuse to take a shot of tequila even though I liked to take it and drink it. I’m just very thankful that I’m so sleepy at that time because i’m little bit bored, so what I did is I get my laptop turn it on and then start making my blog. So in that way I keep my self busy so that and forget the "TAGAY". So my friend dont mind me anymore but some of them start joking me that i’m so KJ (kill joy). I didn’t mind if she told to me like that and honeslty i’m so happy that she told me i’m so KJ. I just remembered tito Tony told us in this afternoon “IF YOU DO UNUSUAL THINGS YOU WILL HAVE AN UNUSUAL RESULT”.

LESSON LEARNED:
WE gain the strength of the temptation we resist

ReFormat

 

Day 4

I’m very HAPPY today :D. Because every person i met today smiled at me a simple as that. There are so many reason why I’m very happy today but i will just write one reason why I’m so happy today :D...After a productive afternoon together with my coach (hanz,jake,jan,lovely), my brother texted me like this “oel asa ka ron” and i replied “naa ko ayala” and he replied to me “ok padung naku diha”. I didn’t know that he will go to ayala just to gived me a money :D...so he gaved me a money for my  investment in Crown Lifestyle :D...I told him “jeff kuyog sa ta na para maka ila ka nila” and my brother replied “sigi ganahan ko ana para makaila ko s imu team”..so we go to KFC (ahh yummy tnx lovely,jan) and my brother talked to them...You wanna know what my brother say that makes me happy??..When my brother told them (benson,lovely and jan) “kami raman partner sa balay og sa mga negosyu kami raman pud ang magkasinabot sa tanan” I was so happy because i feel that he is happy for me that he treat me not just like a normal brother but he treat me as Partner in Life. Who’ve thought that I made my brother inspired to what i’ve done lately in my life :D...Who’ve thought a trouble maker person I am could inspire a PRIDEFULLNESS brother without doing nothing to him:D..I just remember what Hanz told me “number 1 secret of highly creative person DO NOTHING".

LESSON LEARNED:

Sometimes being a brother is even better than being a superhero

The Decision

 Day 3

A very happy Tuesday afternoon. You know why??...I already talked to my parents my plan and my dreams for my self and to them. Honestly my father got angry for my decision the decision to stop my studies. They always told me like this “oel maglisod mn gani og pangita og work ang degree holder ikaw na kaha na walay degree” . Well I understand what they feel  because there’s no parents in this world that want to see thier children experiencing agony. But what makes me happy on that day??...This sound crazy to me because I never thought that my father will tell me like this “oel humana nalang imu mga kulang sa skwelahan and then after nimu mahuman ang mga kulang nimu s skwelahan pwede naku mutuman kung unsa imu mga gusto”. Wow I cant imagined my father will tell me like that....wooohhh at that moment I feel that I am the boss in my life and that time my father just warmed me from my decision “oel ikaw na nag decision ana ha...i hope dili nimu sayangan akong gihatag na freewill nimu”...wooooh and I answered my father “this time Pa I will promise to you that i will be change just give me a chance”...After that my father support my decision and he even let me borrowed his laptop....I feel great at that day coz i cant imagined my father support my decision...by this very moment I feel I can do all the challenge because I have the full courage in my life :)

LESSON LEARNED:

All our dreams can come true, if we have the courage to pursue them

The Journey to SUCCESS

DAY 2

The 1st day of our "I-WAS DRUG CAMPAIGN". quest to the "TOPS"..Honestly i'm afraid that i can't finish the challenge :'( but i always put it my mind "do it with afraid". Finally we started our stretching and then we started to walk then finally we jog, as we jog we encounter some obstacle and i started to complaint "kapoi naman oi!!!dili naman normal ako gibuhat...uli nata oi" but the more i complaint the more i run "crazy me".

Unfornately we didn't finished the quest because were running out of time and the best reason is our stomach is aching :)..As we went down to Busay jeepney terminal jan told us "kaon sa ta diha ky lami kaayu na ila mga sud.an", after we ate our breakfast we talked about our performance in a joke way "bai ang ato performance murag ako bisyu sauna...sauna usa ka lapad ako kaya pero nag sigi ko og try ni abot naku 3 ka lapad na ako mahurot", but who have thought as simple excercise turn into a productive excercise. you know why??..asked me why??hehehe...even though we didn't finished the quest to the TOPs we gained lesson from what we did..It just come into our mind we may not finished our quest but we never stop trying to finished our quest to the TOPS.we commit to ourselves that within 90 days we can conquer the TOPs and achieve the reward of "success"  

LESSON LEARNED:

YOU CAN'T ACHIEVE SUCCESS WITHOUT TRYING

The New Beginning